Feeling Like an Outsider

Have you ever felt ‘different’ from everyone around you?


As a young business owner and competitor I’ve basically gotten used to it


But, it started a long time ago!


To be very transparent, I used to think my differences made me better than some & worse than others.


Over the years I’ve learned that there is NOTHING that makes one person better or worse than another


If someone loves reading but you listen to podcasts, it doesn’t mean you suck & should start reading or vise versa!


I am not one of those people who says “I never thought I’d end up here”, things have changed yes, but I always knew I’d find a way to make an impact, do what I love, and live life on my terms


Some people would say that I’ve “sacrificed” a lot to be able to get where I am at such a young age


But I’ve just followed my heart & done what I want.


People always told me I’d regret doing things like;


skipping the party, sitting in my car at lunch to eat my prepped food and nap, not going to prom, choosing to study online, investing $$thousands of dollars in myself and my business, choosing self-employment, doing bikini competitions, and on and on and on


But I have yet to regret any of it


I am proud of the person I’m becoming. I have sooooo much to learn. I’ve come a long way. And I am truly happy with my decisions.


Do I sometimes wonder, “what if?” OF COURSE!!!


But my why, my meaning, my purpose ALWAYS brings me back


This is not about who I could have been. This is about who I am choosing to be. Because all we have is RIGHT NOW!


I have done so much inner work to accept and love myself which I feel truly allows me to keep taking the steps I need to win in my own way!


Just because you win in one way, doesn’t mean others aren’t winners too


We are all incredible. We are all worthy, deserving, & capable of living our most fulfilled life


For some people, it looks different than others. That’s the beauty of life!


Have you ever felt different, misunderstood, doubted, or like the misfit?


I’d love to hear about it! It’ll be fun to get to know you guys more😍😍

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