No More Comparison, You Are Not Doing it Wrong Just Because Another Girl is Doing it Differently
Absolutely loving my shape right now😊😊
I invest so much time in my body every day & my body supports my efforts. Why not celebrate that?!
I used to scroll online & think oh that’s a bikini girl and I don’t look like her therefore I’m not successful
I’d scroll down my feed thinking damn I wish I had her abs, her hamstrings, & her shoulders because then I’d be appreciated, validated, rewarded, & seen (of course this was subconscious until I became aware of it)
I would compare my physique to her & her & her & her suddenly forgetting that I was perfectly happy as I was
I would read captions that said if you’re not doing x or y or z then you are a failure
I’d hear girls say if you eat, train, prep or reverse a certain way then you’re doing it wrong
Damn, people preaching that we need to do our own thing 1 minute then the next minute they tell us if we are a certain way then we aren’t cut out for this or that
AGAIN, SAYS WHOOO!?
You know most people on the planet wake up & just live...
They don’t get caught up in everyone else’s body, or meals, or workouts
1 thing that’s freed me from all of this fluff from others is building belief in myself & true faith in MY life
I remind myself that if others compared themselves to me or what I was doing
I would know it is silly because even one small event in my life could’ve changed the trajectory of where I am now & NO ONE else has experienced life exactly as I have
Therefore, why would I have any reason to compare myself to someone else who likely has a million differences from me even if on surface level we both identify similarly as “competitor” or “business owner” or “mentor”?
It is only an identity, but the truth lies in our own unique paths that took us here to choose the identities
If you’re finding yourself in a bit of a doubt filled rut, write down some ways you have overcome doubt, fear, failure, pressure, etc
Show yourself that this soon will be something you reflect on for strength in the future
PS I have 6 seats left for my free LIVE event for bikini competitors going deep on all things inner work on 10/12 in San Diego! Click here to register now!
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