Stop Playing the Blame Game

Blaming others is an excuse fearful people rely on to offload responsibility for their life circumstances or an outcome which didn’t go the way they wanted or expected yet was in their control or under their influence.
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If you want to place blame then you might as well just burn down the belief that you are also capable of creating your own reality, life, success, or results.
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Responsibility goes both ways. If you take responsibility for your wins, you must be willing to take it for your shortcomings or the lessons in life too.
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Every loss is a lesson YOU have been GIFTED. When you see it this way, you become the one who benefits and grows from choosing to learn the lesson. But if you run from it and throw it at someone else, you destroy an opportunity to improve; Why would you want to do that?
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#lovenudge #youdeservedit #findthelesson
This picture was from my show in February taking my first first place win in novice class and third place in open class before heading to Vegas for back to back shows. Love it💜 😭

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