You Are Not Responsible for How Your Lifestyle Makes Others Feel

It’s funny because I was gunna follow this photo up with some elaborate caption about harming yourself or others but honestly, everyone’s always gunna have an opinion about what you’re doing and if it’s “good” or not


Just mind your own business and pay attention to your intentions behind your lifestyle


Don’t worry about what other people are doing if you don’t want them worrying about what you’re doing


If we just approach conversations openly and with consideration for the other persons needs, passions, and feelings we would have more loving outcomes


You can’t stop someone from feeling weird about you pulling out Tupperware at a party but you also can’t be hating on someone who doesn’t


It’s just not conducive to supporting others in having positive relationships with food or their body


Be inquisitive but be respectful


And if someone isn’t respectful of you, set a boundary that helps them better understand how to approach you


There are ABSOLUTELY extreme cases where I’d say you FOR SURE should be worried about how someone is living their life but that’s not what this post is for


I’m talking on a regular day to day basis, it’s not worth anyone’s time or energy


Just focus on your own goals and being loving and supportive to others


If someone’s trying to improve themselves and it’s coming from a positive place then what’s it to ya?


Just because we act as mirrors to one another doesn’t mean we need to take those triggers out on each other


oh, and if you do feel a bit triggered by someone’s lifestyle take it upon yourself to ask where that may be coming from as it pertains to you and your chosen lifestyle
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Alright touchy subject rant over, happy Friday ❤️😊

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