BEING ON PREP IS NOT AN EXCUSE FOR BEING AN ASSHOLE
Just because you were able to create a competition body doesn’t make your life and yourself amazing or even successful!
So many people say competing requires a TON of sacrifice. But I just don’t see it that way... hear me out
I see a lot of choices and new proper prioritization to reach goals yes.
But it’s still possible to have fun with friends & family, be kind, leave your ego or hunger outside of your personal life, go to school or go to work, and just be an overall good person.
If prepping and competing means you turn into a crazy bitch who doesn’t care about anyone accept herself and can’t be nice, have fun, or recognize when they need to chill...then you’re nothing but a person with a good body (maybe!!!)
If you’re going to prep, recognize that it doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice people and fun or good energy....
It means you have to use allll the energy you’re putting into yourself and your goals to step up and be even more present for the world around you
Competing should never take away from your life.
Competing should never make you a worse person.
Competing should not be a drag.
If it’s any of those things,
You either should not compete
You need to learn how to maintain a level head, soft heart, and peaceful soul
Regardless of any ‘sacrifices’ you need to make.
NONE of them have to be family, friends, or YOU
It can be tough sometimes, trust me I know!
But take the time to be more aware, take the time to express love and care if you can’t do/go/be somewhere, recognize the way others feel and take the time to speak truth instead of being harsh
To do any of this;
You need to love yourself above all else and love the lifestyle.
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*this photo was taken a few days after one of my competitions this is not me now. I really need to schedule a photo shoot!!*