There comes a point in every woman’s life where she realizes that no matter how hard she tries, she will; 

never be enough for everyone all at once, always have some part of her someone can criticize, still be told “you’re not my type” or “I prefer women with __”, have someone tell her she looks beautiful on the same day someone made her feel less than her best, and that she is vain or shallow for trying to pursue her best even though the ones telling her that promote the unrealistic ideals seen through adult industries and media

I’ve had many of these realizations throughout my life

From being made fun of for being the big girl to people saying I look sick before a bodybuilding contest

Or having someone love my curves & another person tell me I’d be better if I was skinnier

Having people tell me it’s a good thing I am funny & smart

Hearing I have a girl next door vibe but never the 1st choice & yet being sexualized from a young age🙅🏻‍♀️

Or the judgement for eating because I looked a certain way but never hearing other more “desirable” people questioned

Man the list could go on

Women, am I missing anything? I know many of us all have similar experiences😪

I feel like as hard as those moments can be for us, they can also point us to what matters most😍

I’ve always been taught to value & cherish who I am above all else and to know I am worthy & loved 

I learned that if I am happy with myself, living my life without constraints of constant body checking or disordered eating or letting judgment get to me, then I could be at peace because even if I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, I can love me & show others that they are worthy of love deeper than surface level & that you DO deserve to feel beautiful, loved, cherished, adored…

God made no mistakes with you!☀️You’ve seen what he can do with snowflakes & clouds or flowers and insects, imagine the time he took on US!?

We have been given bodies that are EVER EVOLVING & I believe this is by design, to remind us that if we spend too much time or energy trying to control surface level things, we will miss out on all the inner beauty, growth, strength, wisdom…LIFE & LOVE